The official list of

"Loser's, Liar's, Fakes & Flake's"

on www.swinglifestyle.com

 

  • You really have to blow it to earn a spot on this list!

  • If you're not listed here, congratulations! And watch out for the following people

  • Keep in mind that this is the opinion of the submitter

 

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Who:
1naivecpl
Cert?
Yes
Where:
Lompico Rd. Felton, CA
For:
Stealing, violence
When:
04/06/06
From:
funpair3 & Melinda
Notes: Beware of this guy, his name is Christopher Thomas Ray and not only does he have a history of physical violence towards women and the police record to back it, but we've recently been informed by more than one person that he's also bi-sexual and has ripped off a few of the men that he has had sex with after they fell asleep! He does his best to act like a nice guy until he doesn't get his way. He also uses other girl's photo's in his profiles without their permission in order to pose as a couple in hopes of luring unsuspecting girls or couples into playing. His yahoo profile say's "trustworthy", but we know from experience that he is definitly not.
Some of the contacts that he goes by are:
1naivecpl@yahoo.com
alnamtaken@yahoo.com
naivegrl69@yahoo.com
onedude8@hotmail.com
raychris01@comcast.net
roc@yahoo.com

He is well known on craigslist as a sicko.

 

Who:
24U24US
Cert?
No
Where:
Quincy, MA
For:
Using others photo's
When:
02/10/05
From:
PleasHerParty
Notes: Your pictures are stolen (she's a personal friend and you're busted!)

 

Who:
7crows
Cert?
Yes 1
Where:
Truckee, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
calisue
Cert?
No
Where:
Concord, CA
For:
No show
When:
02/12/05
From:
doittome

Notes: This gal told us she was on her way over after giving her directions and she never showed, mailed or called us!

We HATE that!

 

Who:
campbellcouple
Cert?
No
Where:
Campbell, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
chereb1512
Cert?
No
Where:
San Leandro, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
daerlo
Cert?
Yes 1
Where:
Sacramento, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
ErosCpl
Cert?
Yes 1
Where:
San Francisco, CA
For:
Rudeness
When:
07/02/05
From:
mark0691
Notes: So I e-mailed Eroscpl who state in their profile that they are looking for males. I was very polite and respectful in my e-mail but I received no reponse. Then I e-mailed again asking if they got the first e-mail and if they aren't interested to just tell me - again no response. Finally, they e-mailed me a very rude reply:

You've got to be kidding right? A single male, nothing to add but himself pushing for a response?
Perhaps its exactly this type of attitude that we are looking to avoid. Oh, by the way this is "Swinglifestyle" not "Baycouples" and we could care less what anyone, including your friends think about etiquette. Rest assured we don't now, and never will,
let what others think influence our actions. Soooo, where you were in the running prior to this, you are not now.
Want an anser? Here it is. "You've been blocked"
Cheers
^__^

Eroscpl

For whatever reason, ErosCpl believes themselves to be superior to single males (probably other couples, too!) and he doesn't believe that manners and common courtesy apply to him. I hope you all will consider this if you communicate with them!

 

Who:
funcpl9inch2
Cert?
No
Where:
Salida, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
11/30/04
From:
dunlap5699
   
From: mahalove1

Notes: He tried to get us to hook up with him and his imaginary wife. Thought it was a little fishy when he was doing all the talking and telling us how bad he wanted to fuck my wife. When I called his bluff and asked about his wife, he finally said she wasn't interested in the lifestyle at this time, and that it would just be him.
Oh, and did I mention he REALLY wanted to fuck my wife? I told him to get a job, and good luck with the next couple.
Keep up the good work!

This is a single guy wanting to get your pics, so don't send any. Don't be fooled that he has one pic of a girl..there isn't any partner. And if he tells you he isn't a single guy, ask to talk to his lady and see how he avoids the question. When we confronted him, here was his response "Man once again, relax fuck head...Looser...I get more pussy than you will ever , ever get..ok dick head, Im a very good looking white male with a big cock..ok want me to show your wife we will let her decide ok..." Can you tell from his response he's a single guy..how pathetic.

 

Who:
funny4all
Cert?
No
Where:
San Jose, CA
For:
Incorrect location
When:
01/06/05
From:
funpair3

Notes: This member has incorrectly been stating San Jose, Ca as their location for an entire year now even though they havent been there, much less the USA!

Update: 01/12/05 After being informed we've added them to this list, the smartasses reply:

"thank you. but if you are in europe. let us know :-) j+m"

 

Who:
GPCouple
Cert?
No
Where:
Pleasanton, CA
For:
Incorrect location
When:
06/01/05
From:
funpair3

Notes: Yet another couple who just refuses to list their correct location!

Profile say's Pleasanton, Ca., so when we wrote them letting them know they were fairly close by, they replied "We no longer live in Pleasanton as we have moved to the wine country. Pam & Gil".

So we wrote back asking them to update their profile to reflect their current location, simple one would think, right? But nooooooooo, it's been over 4 days now since they read our message according to sls mail and they were logged in as recent as yesterday and still want you to believe they are somewhere they arn't! So here you go Pam & Gil, welcome to the loser list, let us know when you get your act together and we'll update this to let other's know you managed to pull your head out!

 

Who:
hodgie01
Cert?
No
Where:
Yuba City, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
inRhythm
Cert?
No
Where:
Oakland, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
09/17/04
From:
funpair3
Notes: After 3 months of going back and forth, he finally tells us "sorry guys it's just me here now"

 

Who:
JeffandCindy
Cert?
No
Where:
Pleasanton, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
11/09/04
From:
funpair3
Notes: After a month of going back and forth, he blatantly informs us in chat that his girlfriend doesn't know anything about this, and he just acts like a couple to get more!

 

Who:
Kb3
Cert?
No
Where:
Citrus Heights, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
kickback4u2c
Cert?
No
Where:
Stockton, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
mistermax
Cert?
No
Where:
Carmichael, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone

Notes: Below is mail history from a REAL loser He is a white guy that tells everyone he has a 9 inch dick and really it's only 5 and now he tells me he is black I called him on it and he admits he's a loser I'd post this here on SLS in the Forum under BLOCKING but it seems only paid members can do that. OK here it is Start at the bottom You see why 'US' people who just wanna let loose and have some fun have to deal with ...

mistermax Littleshyone 2005-02-07 10:46:00 really i know i am a loser

Littleshyone mistermax 2005-02-07 10:39:00 really I know for a fact youre NOT a black man, and the pictures you pass around of your cock are NOT yours either. What is wrong with you?? Why do you lie??? You really do belong at the top of the losers page.

mistermax Littleshyone 2005-02-05 14:35:00 because I am black

Littleshyone mistermax 2005-02-04 10:35:00 why do you ask?

mistermax Littleshyone 2005-02-03 11:51:00 do you like black men?

Littleshyone mistermax 2005-02-02 21:18:00 Thank You for writing. Right now I don't think we are compatible, good luck in your search.

mistermax Littleshyone 2005-02-02 12:44:00 hello submissive male emotionally and financially stable would like to spoil financially to be at your beck and call I am in Carmichael single work in advertising

 

Who:
MtViewCouple4fem
Cert?
No
Where:
Mountain View, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
naughtygirlslut
Cert?
No
Where:
Mountain View, CA
For:
No show
When:
12/20/05
From:
funpair3

Notes: These two are seriously lacking in the manners department, not to mention also liars!

We talked to them 15 minutes prior to being at the restraunt on the cell phone, they said they were also running late and no problem, so we get there and got a table right outside the front door after looking inside for them.

After about a half hour we tried calling them at least 4 times at the same number asking where they were, and they didn't even bother answering it! Not only that but they have the nerve to throw in a smart ass comment regarding our attire, these morons obviously didn't see that I was dressed "business casual" actually wearing slacks, etc. and my wife looked better than every other gal in the place! Bottom line is even if they for whatever reason decided they did not want to say "Hi" to us (if they were even there) they should have at least answered our calls that they later admitted to ignoring to let us know! We went ahead and ate and left about 2 hours after arriving, what's really ironic is that a lady walking out the door mistaked me for the guy that runs the place and said I looked just like him, guess I couldn't have been that poorly dressed after all!

naughtygirlslut funpair3 2005-12-22 04:25:00
Hi_again
We did see your calls coming in. We waited till 9.30 and believe that was a fair time to wait. We did arrive 15 minutes late and called to let you know (actually Matt was there at 9.30 and Amanda was running late) Thank you for coming to Mounatin View but please respect us by showing up at least close to the time AGREED. I do know the staff there and a small hint make an effort to dress to impress. Please do NOT contact us but we do wish you every success in your search. Cheers Matt & Amanda

funpair3 naughtygirlslut 2005-12-21 04:53:00
Hope you two
Hope you guys are okay? We waited at the place till 11:30pm, but didn't see you? Called a bunch of times too.
m&m

 

Who:
norcalhrdkore
Cert?
No
Where:
Carmichael, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
onehotpopi
Cert?
No
Where:
San Leandro, CA
For:
No show
When:
12/10/04
From:
funpair3
Notes: This guy is a real loser, he tells us he will be right over, then never shows up, never replied to our messages etc. Not even an excuse.

 

Who:
ptowncpl
Cert?
No
Where:
Pleasanton, CA
For:
Incorrect location
When:
07/03/05
From:
funpair3
Notes: Their profile say's Pleasanton, but when asked about hooking up they say "We have moved to the other side of Santa Cruz, and we are taking a break to acclimate". So we asked them to please update their profile, guess they would rather mislead us all since that was a couple weeks ago and it still say's Pleasanton :(

 

Who:
pumas
Cert?
No
Where:
Soquel, CA
For:
Incorrect location
When:
11/11/04
From:
funpair3
Notes: First off their profile say's San Jose when in fact they are in Soquel, they claim that's because they or at least he works in San Jose, yet when asked about hooking up, they say come to Soquel! Also for some reason could never get the female half Kim to call us and we suspect that this is yet another guy posing as a couple in the hopes of getting lucky, especially since the only way they want to meet is for him to come do me the wife here at our house, and then afterwards sometime to send my husband to Soquel to do his wife, yeah right!

 

Who:
salsboy2000
Cert?
No
Where:
Sacramento, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
stevisecret
Cert?
Yes
Where:
Phoenix, AZ
For:
No show
When:
11/01/04
From:
funpair3
Notes: Although we believe this couple is real and all, they nevertheless stood us up, no call, no message, no show, no nothing! So that's why they are listed here, maybe they just lack considration for other's time?

 

Who:
SweetP_222000
Cert?
No
Where:
Aransas Pass, TX
For:
Lying
When:
02/20/05
From:
funpair3

Notes: Danny and Jessica first contacted us back on Dec 27th and said they we're moving out here in mid Jan and wanted to meet us, so we chatted them several times on yahoo and let them see us on our webcam, however they claimed theirs was broken. We asked them to call on the phone so we could verify they were real but they didn't. On Jan 21st they messaged us saying that they now would not move here until Feb 11th due to family issues. Feb 11th we mailed them asking them what happened this time and why they were not out here, no reply! Feb 16th we mailed them letting them know we intended on adding them to this list for outright lying, again no reply! We figure these losers just like to get off watching others webcams or something, whatever their reason we now call them liars.

 

Who:
sxxyybicplnsac
Cert?
No
Where:
Sacramento, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
TimeEnough4Fun
Cert?
Yes
Where:
Davis, CA
For:
No show
When:
05/01/04
From:
funpair3
Notes: Although we believe this couple is real, they nevertheless stood us up, not once, not twice but three times!, So that's why they are listed here, maybe they just lack consideration for other's time? On the third time, about an hour after they should have been here, we decided to call them, Rose answered and we asked where were they, she said "I'm too tired". They could have at least let us know we think!
When:
03/19/04
From:
doittome
Notes: Beware of this lady - she likes to try to twist facts around we have learned not to mention bad mouth those unfortunate enough to have been stood up by her - double thumbs down is our vote!

 

Who:
usa1
Cert?
Yes
Where:
Menlo Park, CA
For:
Lying
When:
05/17/05
From:
funpair3

Notes: It's rare that we encounter someone with this guy's level of rudeness, first he tells us, "Yes I can come over now", then about 15 minutes later mails us saying "Its too late. I already beat off to your pic"!!!

What an idiot, sure hope he likes that hand of his, because none of the ladies we know will be giving him anything after reading this!

 

Who:
wldcpl1369
Cert?
No
Where:
Sacramento, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

 

Who:
Yashon
Cert?
No
Where:
Rio Linda, CA
For:
Guy posing as a couple
When:
01/05/05
From:
Littleshyone
Notes: I have been overwhelmed with married couples who "ARENT" just single guys (and married men who cheat). I am interested in adding these names to your "losers" page all of these HAVE NO WOMAN, all the excuses, oh she just left me and blah blah blah

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